I’m learning to hold back my judgement before I say things that I regret. Oh, the careless words that I let slip, because it is just “easier to speak the truth”. But if the truth ends up hurting someone, which is never my intention, maybe I should re-assess the way I deliver my words.
I’m learning that we cannot choose who we work with. Granted, we can choose our friends, and let those who don’t quite matter, slip away (or we do the slipping) from us. It is precisely the limits and the coincidences that gives me the chance to work on who I am, on what I deem as good work, and how I can better myself.
And finding the right moment to say yes, and even say no.